The sense of Touch.. importance of Human Touch! & Y u shud'nt abuse it!
Obviously it feels good to be held by someone you care about, to make love to them & of course the rush you get.
Even the gentle brush of a certain someone against your skin can make you tingle.. & feel like U are on cloud nine!
But did you ever wonder WHY>??!
It isn't just something we imagine, or a feeling our brains conjur up bcoz we are lost in the moment. But in reality, its a surge of bonding hormone called oxyticin. Yes d same one that creates d bond between a mother & her baby. It is released during cuddling, hugging & other close encounters...in BOTH women, and to a lesser extent men. This hormone also helps to battle cortisol, the nasty hormone that is surging through your body when you are stressed!
U must have noticed that all the stress in your world melt away when you are in the arms of your lover...obviously there is some scientific merit to how U feel!
On the flip side...this is also another reason why women especially should stay away from one night stands and having "friends with benefits".
YOU WILL BECOME ATTACHED!
Your body WILL make sure this happens & d more u get close with a guy, d greater the amount of oxytocin! This is why, after you stop being intimate in ANY relationship you start to feel more like friends..not that that is a bad thing...IF you never have another person hug you or touch you again in your LIFE!
Guess now U know why u thrive on intimacy & hugs.. coz u(at some point) need it! To be mentally healthy, but also physically...and the extra excersise doesn't hurt either!
Obviously it feels good to be held by someone you care about, to make love to them & of course the rush you get.
Even the gentle brush of a certain someone against your skin can make you tingle.. & feel like U are on cloud nine!
But did you ever wonder WHY>??!
It isn't just something we imagine, or a feeling our brains conjur up bcoz we are lost in the moment. But in reality, its a surge of bonding hormone called oxyticin. Yes d same one that creates d bond between a mother & her baby. It is released during cuddling, hugging & other close encounters...in BOTH women, and to a lesser extent men. This hormone also helps to battle cortisol, the nasty hormone that is surging through your body when you are stressed!
U must have noticed that all the stress in your world melt away when you are in the arms of your lover...obviously there is some scientific merit to how U feel!
On the flip side...this is also another reason why women especially should stay away from one night stands and having "friends with benefits".
YOU WILL BECOME ATTACHED!
Your body WILL make sure this happens & d more u get close with a guy, d greater the amount of oxytocin! This is why, after you stop being intimate in ANY relationship you start to feel more like friends..not that that is a bad thing...IF you never have another person hug you or touch you again in your LIFE!
Guess now U know why u thrive on intimacy & hugs.. coz u(at some point) need it! To be mentally healthy, but also physically...and the extra excersise doesn't hurt either!
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