What is the worlds fascination with NEEDING to be with someone? If you aren't ok with yourself, then you look outside yourself to fill that void. Some people NEED to have someone "love" them to feel validated and whole...but this just becomes a self destructive behavior. Yes, it is great to have someone to hang with n get close with. But in all honesty, if you can't find happiness within yourself, you will never be able to feel happy and you will be in that constant circle of dating, neediness, resentment when your needs aren't filled, loneliness, and then dating to fill your void again.
If you have to try this hard and NEED someone in your life...best look at yourself and ask WHY? Life really is too short not to be happy, and when you are happy with you, the rest of the world will see that and so will all the people around you..
Having to be with someone, for the sake of not wanting to be alone, is needy...being good with you, and wanting another's company, because it adds to your life, that is a whole different outlook!
can do without, but if I don't have to, then why should I ?! ;)
If you have to try this hard and NEED someone in your life...best look at yourself and ask WHY? Life really is too short not to be happy, and when you are happy with you, the rest of the world will see that and so will all the people around you..
Having to be with someone, for the sake of not wanting to be alone, is needy...being good with you, and wanting another's company, because it adds to your life, that is a whole different outlook!
can do without, but if I don't have to, then why should I ?! ;)
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