cut to the chase or not..

Its very common for us gals being told "DO NOT CHASE THE MAN!! Let him pursue you...that is that way they like it!"  since we are little children :/

But then, more and more I see articles like this (AskMen.com's Top 10 Ways to Make Women Chase You) and the whole situation gets confused..

don't completely agree with a girl outright chasing a guy.  

I believe that in the majority of situations, in order to have a guy "fall in love with u" he needs to be feeling in control of the situation. 

They have to be confident, & know that will be all right with what happens between the two of you. 

Men are, since the beginning of time, traditionally the fixers and the providers. No, they probably won't dote and go "there, there honey" but they WILL be the "all right, who hurt you and how do I make it better" person. 

When they truly love you, they will do anything in their power to look after you. BUT they have to feel stable in where they are in life first. 

Few men are willing to take on a partner in life if they aren't sure they can provide for them. 

But a man in love is one of the most amazing people you will ever encounter.. he glows, he is confident, he will rock the world of the woman he wants to be with!

Think about all that said above when you decide to "chase a man". A proud & confident guy works for everything he wants in life. That includes his girl. So let them know you care, give them the love and support they need & last but not least BE CONFIDENT IN WHO YOU ARE!

I have heard that there is nothing more attractive than a confident woman! ;)